I go to a lot of weddings. (I’m in a wedding band after all) So I have the luxury of seeing how lot’s of different couples handle all the details of their wedding. It’s always interesting how many ways there are to do stuff, like the cake.
There’s lots of options today. Some people have the traditional layer cake, others cupcakes, a few couples are not having cake at all. What is the right option for you?
I propose you ask the following questions:
1. Is your crowd going to eat cake? I have been to weddings where most of the cake just gets served and then ends up in the trash. I’m sorry, but that seems like a waste to me. Just like in all aspects of planning your wedding, know your people. Make sure it’s the right choice.
2. Are you having a sweet table? Honestly, cake and the sweet table compete with each other. One idea is to serve the cake as part of the sweet table. You can then get a smaller cake. This might save you some money or allow you to spend more money to get the best tasting and looking cake.
3. Is the cake for looks or eating? Believe it or not, this is a decision that need to be made. Often, the best looking cakes do not taste good. I was told by a cake bakery that certain types of frosting, look great but cannot be made to taste good. The same can be said of the cake itself, some designs require the cake to be so stiff, that it won’t be moist or flavorful. Talk to your baker and make the right choice for you.
4. What is your personality? I think you should reflect who you are in all of your plans. Cake is no exception. Cupcakes can show a fun individual style. One couple we worked with donated the money they would have spent on a cake to their favorite charity. Who are you? Make your cake or no cake a reflection of your unique person.
Whatever you decide, have fun, check out a lot of cake options, eat a lot of sample cake, and make the right choice for your wedding!